Alejandro Ignacio Mateo-Soltysiak

1988 - 2009
LocationSevilla And Mijas Costa, Spain
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth15/06/1988
Date of Death15/01/2009
Visitors13,858 since 28/04/2009
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Thank all of you for being with Alex & I always and unconditionally with your candles, messages, & love. I´m hoping to be online more often, it´s just so hard coming here at times. I appreciate you all so much. Love, Melinda xxxxxxx Sept. 23, 2011

Alex and his younger brother by 15 months, Dani, both loved kayaking on the Guadalquivir River in Sevilla.
Alex, every morning I go to the beach and just know you are near to me when I see the ocean, the tide on the shore, and remember our trip to Portugal, just you and me, 10 months before you left. I love you my Champ, my son Alex,,, forever.

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Alex, you are my stars, my moon, my sun, my son, I love you always and forever, my blonde baby boy, my teenager, my fine young man, my special angel as I am your special angel too,,,love, Mamá

For Alex, from Mom

You were never meant to be
Walking the same path as me
Into the day, you are eternity.

Holding your warm little hand
Feeling your infant heart beat
Inside of me you´ll always be.

Your words of love are true,
The way I hear you has changed
Flesh giving way to memory.

Floods of tears will never regain
The bliss of seeing you kiss me
But I feel your kiss within me.

Mom, I love you,
Alex, I love you too.

Alex, my blonde baby boy, my teenager, my fine young man, my top notch waiter (remember when I was one of your teachers at Pineda Country Club, Alex?), my pride and joy, my fellow swimmer in a family of fish, my waterpolo champ, my kayaking champ, you are and always will be my special angel as I am yours too. You are such a perfectionist, such a noble guy, so sharing, loving, caring, so soft and sensitive, you are everything to me. I miss you so much Alex, I will never completely comprehend why you chose to hang yourself, why you didn´t fight to survive whatever was tormenting you so inside. I have seen your drawings and begin to understand the turmoil in your heart and soul, but I will never know why you didn´t stay and fight. I hate the illness which took you from us. We all love you so, your brothers Danny and Enrique, your sister Anna and Meli, your girlfriend Eva, she loves you too, in spite of the arguments and problems, she will always be your one true love and you will be hers too. I miss you, I love you, I still tell you bedtime stories at night, and I know you hear me because I hear you too, please keep sending me your signs, I need you my love,,,,
kisses, Mamá

To all who have been so kind as to visit my angel son Alex, all candles left so he will keep on shining brightly over all of us here who love and miss him so are truly appreciated, please leave one so we know you have been here with us. All your thoughts are thankfully appreciated by me, his sisters Meli and Anna, his brothers Danny and Enrique, and especially by Alex, my moon, my sun, my shining star, my son.

with love,
Melinda,mom4ever of Alex


"...losing through You what seemed myself, i find selves unimaginably mine;
beyond sorrow's own joys and hopings very fears Yours is the light by which
my spirit's born: Yours is the darkness of my soul's return... You are my
sun, my moon, and all my stars."

~e.e cummings

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I felt an angel near today,
Though one I could not see,
I felt an angel, oh, so close,
Sent to comfort me.

I felt an angel’s gentle kiss,
Soft upon my cheek,
And oh, whitout a single word
Of caring it did speak.

I felt an angels loving touch,
Soft upon my heart,
And with that touch, I felt the pain
And hurt within depart.

I felt an angel’s tepid tears,
Fall softly next to mine
And knew that as those tears did dry
A new day would be mine.

I felt an angel’s silken wings
Enfold me with pure love
And felt a strength within me grow
A strength sent from above.

I felt an angel, oh so close
Though one I could not see
I felt an angel near today,
Sent to comfort me.

Author: Unknown

Joyce Tidy

2 weeks ago

Thank you for taking care of my angel sisters, Alex.
Rest in peace, dear angel xxx

Tabby B (Family Friend)

2 weeks ago

God saw that he was getting tired
And the cure was not to be,
So He put His arms around him
And whispered, "Come with Me."

With tearful eyes we watched him suffer
And saw him fade away.
Although we loved him dearly,
We could not make him stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
Busy little hands to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best.

It's lonesome here without you
We miss you so each day,
Our lives aren't the same
Since you went away.

When days are sad and lonely,
And everything goes wrong,
We seem to hear you whisper,
"Cheer up and carry on."

Each time we see your picture,
You seem to smile and say,
"Don't cry, I'm in God's keeping,
We'll meet again someday."

(Rhonda Braswell)

Tabby B (Family Friend)

2 weeks ago

Jane Jess' Mumx

2 weeks ago

ღ With Love Alex On Your Angel Day ღ

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ღ Forever Remembered ღ

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When our loved one’s this world depart
It leaves us with a broken heart
The pain and sorrow that we feel
Will never get better or even heal
The emptiness we feel inside
The many tears we try and hide
Always wishing they were here

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As we travel on this journey of life
We do come to realise

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Just because we can’t see them here
They haven’t really gone anywhere
We feel them in the morning sun
As the new day has begun
We feel them in the gentle breeze
As leaves swirl about from the trees
We feel them in the raindrops that fall
And gently kiss our skin
We hear them when we listen
To the birds as they softly sing
We see them on a moonlit night
When the stars do brightly glow
And when we close our eyes to sleep
We dream of days long ago

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If we feel, listen and believe
Our loved ones
Didn’t really leave
They are everywhere we go

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Copyright Leza

Elizabeth Stewart-Ristevski (GTS Friend)

2 weeks ago

Thinking of you on your 3rd Heavenly Angelversary Alex

❤.... ✣...THINKING OF YOU ON YOUR ANGEL DAY... ✣ ... .❤

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Today is very special Alex,
It comes by once a year.
It’s the day you went to Heaven
And the day you left me here.

I know I should be happy Alex,
You’re in your Heavenly home.
But instead I feel so empty
And oh so all alone.

Yes today is very special
The day you grew your wings.
You left so very quickly
You didn’t take your things.

Instead you left me crying,
Yet hoping all the while
That someday I will remember
This day with a smile.

Anonymous 30.8.10

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. (((HUGS)))
GOD BLESS YOU PRECIOUS ALEX, WATCH OVER YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. THEY MISS YOU SO MUCH AND SEND THEM LOTS OF SIGNS AND LET THEM KNOW YOUR ALL AROUND. ALL MY LOVE XOXO (((HUGS MELINDA)))

Gloria Anthony'S Mom (Close Friend)

2 weeks ago

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❤.... ✣...THINKING OF YOU ON YOUR ANGEL DAY... ✣ ... .❤

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SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE

Mary Hand Mom Of Nick (Close Friend)

2 weeks ago

Thank you all for your support this year.May you and your loved ones have a Happy New Year,filled with love,peace,hope,happiness and good health.Godbless our Angels in Heaven.Love Halina and her Angels x31.12.11

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Ring out the old
Cheer in the new,
As I raise my glass
All I think of is you.
Another year passes
More memories to store,
But, None are as sweet
As the ones befor.
A new year begins
No one knows
Just what it brings,
Still..... In my heart
Is for you a longing.
So, Ring out the old
Cheer in the new
I will raise my glass,
And Always want you.

Copyrite. Anne Ellender dec,2010


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~♥ With Love ♥~

Oh most beautiful star
In the sky tonight
You are most bright
I watch and wait
With hand raised up
Open and waiting
Slowly, oh so slowly
You move through
The night sky
You come closer
As I watch and wait
Hand outstretched
Then ever so softly
You come to rest
In the palm of my hand
You shine like a diamond
Your brilliance
Holds me in awe
I could almost wish
To hold you tight
To keep you safe just for me
In time, your light
Would fade from sight
You would die
To me and to all
So I let you stay
As long as you wish
With palm open
So you may leave at will
You will travel back
To the night sky
To shine brightly
For all to see
I will cherish
The moments you gifted me
With your light
Specially for me
For a little while…
Star So Bright

by Ann Marquette

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Thank you all for your support this year.May you and your loved ones have a Happy New Year,filled with love,peace,hope,happiness and good health.Godbless our Angels in Heaven.Love Halina and her Angels x31.12.11

Halina Alexandrou (Auntie)

4 weeks ago

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Sylvie Belanger

December 29, 2011

Merry Christmas in Heaven Alex

Dear Alex,
I love you so much, and I miss you so much, you are gone, but in my heart, you have never left.

Please give huge hugs to my Grandfather Ignatius, he left 44 years ago today, and every Christmas ever since, has been a day when I especially remember him and feel him so very close to my heart.

Please take good care of Polly and Karen and Jenni and Izzy, their sisters Anna and Tabby and their Dad miss them so terribly much. Life just isnt anywhere near the same without all of you here, you are so missed, my loves.

And, have a fabulous time there in Heaven today! Its Jesus Birthday! You must be all having a ball, and deep in my heart, I am truly happy for all of you, I really am. And, please help me to walk this road well, my final destination is there with you. Gosh, if it werent for your brothers and sisters, I would most likely want to be with you too. Until we meet again, my love, stay by my side, always near, and know, I love you and care about you still, and always will.


I love you Alex, Happy Christmas my Special Angel, my brightest star.

Mam xxxxxx

Melinda Soltysiak (Mom)

December 25, 2011
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